Friday, September 26, 2008

:: Al-Fatihah ::

Al-Fatihah buat nenek yang telah kembali ke Ramahtullah pada 23 September 2008 jam 9.20 malam bersamaan 24 Ramadhan 1429 Hijrah. Macam tak sangka-sangka jer...macam mimpi pun ada jugak.Actually memang da lama tak jumpa sehinggalah mak call bagitau yg nenek warded on Monday afternoon. A bit surprised when my mom informed that my grandmom warded.Cozzz...nenek takkan ke hospital kalau dia sakit. Cuma bole ke klinik jer...sbb?Being afraid to stay at hospital. Sepanjang hari tak sedap hati since dapat tau berita tu. Iyer la, my uncle told me that her high blood pressure too high. OMG!!! Petang before berbuka pusa my mom informed me that her condition better...ok la kan..lega sikit hati nie. But walau dalam rasa lega, masih terselit rasa tak sedap hati jugak. Cuma tak zahirkan pada my Hubby jer...iyer lah on that time I & my Hubby berbuka puasa with his friends. Oh yer...before that my mom ada cite semasa di bilik kecemasan. nenek tetiba collapse &...tak kenal orang dah...tu yang buat rasa makin tak sedap hati tuh.

After berbuka, we went back to my house & I informed my bother 'bout grandmom. He didn't know about that coz my mom did not inform him yet. And than I told him that only 4 of us still did not go back to visit nenek which is Me, my Hubby, my brother n my cousin. Others such my aunts and other cousins dah pun pergi melawat nenek. So I was decided to balik Senawang on that nite (4 of us la).Masa sampai di hospital, kebetulan my mom n my aunt from JB pun sampai. Terperanjat jugak lah sbb balik tak inform dia. Masa I & my Aunt menuju ke ward,berlaku 1 peristiwa yang mana tetiba nenek jatuh dari katil. Yang best nyer doc & nurse bole tak perasan...huh.Apa lagi terjerit la my aunt bila tgk mak dia dah tersungkur ke lantai. Baru la depa dok kelam kabut. Keadaan nenek jadi makin tak menentu selepas jatuh dari katil sehinggalah ke akhir hayat nenek. Doc pun mengesahkan kematian nenek disebabkan ada darah beku di otak kesan dari jatuh katil. Al-fatihah untuk nenek.Semoga dicucuri Rahmat olehNya.


L.o.g.o.f.f

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

:: Renungan Seketika ::

Jangan suka mendedah tubuh
Jadilah seperti jagung, jangan seperti gajus.
Jagung membungkus bijinya yang banyak, sedangkan gajus mempamerkan bijinya yang cuma satu.


Setia terhadap pasangan
Jadilah seperti pohon pisang.Pohon pisang kalau berbuah hanya sekali seumur hidupnya.

Kecantikan dalaman
Jadilah seperti durian, jangan seperti kedondong.Durian walaupun di luarnya penuh kulit yang tajam, tetapi di dalamnya lembut dan manis.Berbeza dengan kedondong, di luarnya mulus dan berkilat, tetapi di dalamnya ada biji yang berduri.

Jaga kesucian dalam bergaul
Jadilah seperti sengkuang, walaupun hidup dalam tanah dan selut, tetapi ubinya tetap putih bersih.

Selalu bertindak adil
Jadilah seperti tandan petai, bukan tandan rambutan.Tandan petai membahagi makanan sama rata ke biji2nya, semua seimbang, tidak seperti rambutan, ada yang kecil ada yang besar.

Semakin tua semakin bijaksana
Jadilah seperti cili. Semakin tua,semakin pedas.

Jangan bermuka-muka
Jadilah seperti buah manggis.Buah manggis bioleh diketahui ulas isinya dari bahagian tampuknya.


...Kata-kata untuk memperingati diri sendiri terutamanya..


L.o.g.o.f.f

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

::Khasiat Kurma::

  • Kurma adalah buah dari tumbuhan palma yang kaya dengan zat besi, kalsium, fosforus, sodium, potasium, vitamin A dan C serta niasin.
  • Dari segi saintifiknya dikenali sebagai phoenix dactylifera L berkesan mengubati gangguan usus kronik dan mengatasi sembelit.
  • Penawar mujarab dalam perubatan tradisional untuk mengatasi masalah insomnia, mengurangkan batuk serta pelbagai khasiat lain seperti diceritakan dalam 21 ayat al-Quran yang menyebut mengenai buah kurma.
  • Mengikut pendapat pakar perubatan, buah kurma kaya dengan unsur zat besi dan kalsium yang sesuai untuk wanita sama ada ketika hamil atau selepas bersalin.
  • Bagi ibu yang mempunyai masalah kekurangan susu, ia dapat diatasi dengan memakan buah kurma sekali gus menggalakkan pertambahan kandungan susu.
  • Berperanan dalam pertumbuhan kanak-kanak, pembentukan darah dan sumsum tulang.
    Antara kajian lain dijalankan membuktikan kurma antara makanan paling pantas diproses sebagai bekalan tenaga.
  • Khasiatnya terbukti membantu memanaskan badan, mencergaskan otak dan tubuh badan, mencergaskan minda kanak-kanak.
  • Jus kurma dapat mengurangkan tumpah darah, menguatkan organ rahim serta berkesan meredakan tekanan darah tinggi.
  • Ia juga membantu melicinkan perjalanan darah, menghindari barah, merawat buah pinggang, mencuci hati dan membantu mengurangkan pengaliran darah ketika kelahiran.
  • Tidak saja buah kurma, umbut pokok kurma juga boleh dijadikan makanan dan mempunyai khasiat tersendiri.

Perlu jadi makanan rutin berbanding juadah kini yang banyak bahan bahayakan kesihatan.

L.o.g.o.f.f

Thursday, September 4, 2008

::MoNkeY SEE,MoNkeY Do::

Just want to share one article I read. It from Yellow Post (Feb 01-07,2008) written by F.A. Tanza. Full with message that I think usefull in our life. Just take a few minutes to think about it...It right thing,coz sometimes we didn't realize about it...

There was a time when I used to wonder why my young daughter often spoke rudely to me.

"Caithlyn,have you finished your meal?" I asked her once.

"Later!Can't you see I'm very busy now?"came her reply in a snipping tone.

I had also wonder why her young brother used an authoritarian tone of voice when he wanted something."Gimme this/that!"he would say to me.

"The kids are so rude!"I commented to my wife.

"Well,don't you realize that you are often that way with them?"came her reply.

As much as I loathed admitting it, my wife was right. Like father like son - and daughter!The things I hated hearing from my kids were actually the ones that originated from fours truly.

Whether we like it or not,kids are quick to learn things from their parents - the good ones as well as the bad. What goes in their ears often comes out from their little mouths.

As it had been proved by my kids,we parents can't expect them to bo polite if we are the opposite. If we raise our voices to them,then that is exactly what they will do to us inreturn. If we mutter "S**t" under our breaths in their presence when we get stuck in a bad traffic jam, they too would use the exact expletive when they feel frustrated - and often when we least expect it.

On the other hand, if we cultivate the habit of tagging "thank you" and "please" at the end of what we are saying, they too would learn to add these polite phrases in their daily conversation.

Furthermore,we should never laugh at a poor display of manners. If we collapse in a heap of giggles when a kid calls his baby sister "poopy face", not only we endorse the use of the derogatory name-calling,this would also encourage an encore from him.

Consistency is just as important. We can't tell the kids off for something one day, and then laugh our heads off at the same offence the next time. This would only cnfuse the little ones.

My kids had certainly thaught me to be watchful of the words that slip through my mouths, and to be mindful of the way I behave. We can't say one thing and do the opposite, because kids learn more from watching us behave than from us telling them how to behave. Perhaps you have heard of the story of the hypocritical father of a young boy who was caught stealing at his school. "Why did you steal your classmate's pen?reprimanded the embarrassed father. "Didn't I bring you enough pens from my office last week?"

It's certainly not easy to be on our best behaviour at all times, but that's exactly what we parents have to strive for if we want our kids to grow well-mannered.

So, it really really make me thing back and what i can conclude is what you give you get back.

L.o.g.o.f.f